Something i got from an email from a few frens. Thought it was pretty helpful as it serves as a reminder to us sweet lovely girls. Here goes... as the title says it all "here's wat Oprah has to say about men"


My dearest girls: We've all been there... Something to think about.
For the boys: Some of it is applicable to you too!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't be friends.
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think it will get better.
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.
Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...
when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him
- he takes it forgranted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything thatyou need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

THE END

My thots exactly. I like that last sentence as it gives out a special meanin to making friends. How true it is. It does take a minute or a little bit more to find sumone n get to know them. And when they do something outrageously kind, caring, you begin to appreciate them. And before you know it, BAM!, you fall in love with them. (At this moment, the word love is made up of several meanings) And when you want to forget them, thats the hardest thing to do ever. Oh well...guess thats how it works in this complicated life of ours.

Im soooooo superly hungry now. Its 1am and i can only think of food. OH mannn...im eating cheetos btw. yummmyyy cheezy n crunchy chips. Its been a week full of funny yet crappy stories. Okie i better get to sleep. toodles for now.

MONDAY blues? not for me. I woke up late and had a great day lazing around. My bed is covered with glitters since ive been playing with that while cleanin my art box. Had this veryyyyyyyy lazy feeling to go out. So i stayed at home. and at home i stayed indeed. lol i got hungry, soooo hungry but sometimes when you are sooo engage in something, you hardly notice anything.

why are girls so complicated? i dont know the answer to that but im sure there's a very good reason for being complicated. Im proud to be a girl and that you know its not easy to be one. Like they say, with great power comes great responsiblity. That line is sooooooo for girls, ladies and woman all over the world. I love today! Thanks for the heads up. My week is gonna be fantastic. okiezzz im off to sleep or shud i say dreamland or wherever it is that im goin, i definately need some food in my mouth! ahhhhhhhh sooOoo hungrY! gdnitez and have a lovely week everyone.

happy days here i come! monday is tmr=off day
hurrah hurrah...

may the force be with me.

Hey its 3 am, n im superly hungry!!!! Went to the IDP open house just now. whewwww...kinda of made up my mind. i had a dream before i woke, sumting which i could not recall. my damn, im sooo tired now. after the open house, head over to my aunt house at jurong east. like i said in the last post, my little cousin is gettin circumcised. I guess technology has improved so much, kids no longer feel in pain when they do it. my little cousin was tellin the other cousins how NOT pain it was. lol...it was kinda funny to hear their conversation. anyway i had nasi berani n i felt that was the most yummiest dinner ive had this week. considering, ive been eating instant noodles for lunch n dinner. ohhhh man....

im hungry now when i woke up n stepped in the kitchen a few moments ago. i wish i cud eat at this hour again, but i dont want to go through the hassle of getting the stuff out of the bag and putting them in separate little boxes and since the fridge is full, im gonna be spendin a long time in the kitchen. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. after yesternight, i dun really feel that good. when i head down to orchard with roda, my heart was beating so fast, i can hardly breathe. not sure whether i was excited about applying or i was just in pain. i really felt that bad, but roda was makin me laugh at the same time so i guess i kinda lightened up. ohhhhhhh mannnn!!! i cant do this.

first i was the happiest girl alive. then now im the most depressed. i need a chill pill ladyyyy. as so said ms swan. wahhahaa update again then, need some more beauty sleep.

love me n leave me...by the seahorses

thanks maad for sendin me such great songs. u always send me inspiring and unique songs. ohhhh man wat a night. once the clock strikes midnite, my heart flips, my stomach dont feel good. mannnn i need some happy candy.

anyway on my way to work and i saw, a couple kissing at the traffic light, a father remindin his son to watch out when crossin the road. a pretty minah at the bustop waitin for bus. n im late for work again. lol wats new? you guys shud noe i guess by now. work was alrite...im on leave tmr. excited? very. scared? kinda. why? not sure though.

got a lift till tp bustp jus now, amazing weird thing happened. not gonna say it here. anyway, met up with blackie for dinner. guess wat!! he was smiling from ear to ear. so excited he couldnt even eat. lol ohhhh blackie blackie. well i was smiling too. we were both smiling but of different reasons. sometimes i wonder, howcome we can click so much. how coo coo he is..how cute i am? or how honest he is to me? always tellin me things that i noe but wud nvr admit? anyway im glad ive found a fren in you. maad n cumshot join us after dinner. was sitting sumwhere near starbucks n guess wat? centipede attacked us!!! lol tat was scary n eeeeeeeewwwwwww im shakin jus tinkin abt it. soooooo geli!! ahahaaa...

question of the day: why cant boys n girls be best friend?
some people dont agree with such things. they feel that boys can nvr have a female friend. whyever not? we are both human and have different thoughts and opinions about things. Thats where its interesting to share and develop ideas or argue about things. boys are brought up in such a way where they have to be macho, know-it-all, strong, cool and watever else a boy is suppose to be. meanwhile girls are brought up in such a way where we are suppose to be kind, soft, patient, and watever else a girl is suppose to be. so yes, boys and girls can be such opposites, thats where the line 'opposites attract'comes in. but at the same time attract in wat sense? attract in being frens or lovers, i believe it cud happen both ways. i have a few frens who are boys and whom i am proud to call them my best frens. why? becoz i share with them my thots, feelings and life. n they do the same to me. sumone i trust, care for, and many many more. in fact, they give me that same ooomph as my girlfrens. ive read books where they claimed that boys n girls can nvr be frens. i hope i can live up to the age of 60 and prove that thats wrong. i wish!
i am indeed very angry now for someone jus disagreed with me. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh i dun tink i can sleep now. awww man....*clench teeth and counting down from 10*

eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee geramnye!!!! ahhahaaaa damn i feel so weird now. okie cant wait for tmr to come. havin breakfast with roda!! she cant wait to meet me too!! after that im goin to my aunt house coz one of my little cousins is hmmm gona get circumcise. wahhahaa okie tat cheered me up abit. off i goooooooooooo...toodles!

Indeed its a plan-less day. but i had lots of rest and got to watch a few more series of sex in the city. i love it, its amazing! dad brought home dunkin donuts. not as yummy as the one i had from j&co. im drinkin yakult n stayin up late to arrange my photos folders.

had the most interesting and smiley chat session ever. its a pity it had to be short. wat is this? was tellin roda abt how exciting this is. its comin back, all over again. the same rush feelings i had back in the poly days.

i hope i start work late tmr. but at the same time i wanna be there in the mornin so i cud see the cute kids...(ok i better stop playing faves)

ive just had a great idea on what i shud blog abt, n just how fast it appears in my mind, its disappears when i step out to get something. Ooohhhhh...i cant wait till i meet the girls n tell them the latest news. i noe i noe....its nothin exciting yet im getttin superly excited abt it right now. it was a full moon jus now. not sure where's the moon now. shud i go to sleep? i cant...need to get some artsy stuff done n i had too much sleep jus now also.

'....this is the last time i will fall into a place that...'

saaDiaH
still 20.Libra.blue.
loves-.butterflies.collecting pretty notebooks.foreign films.fairies.kids.magic.chEEse fries.raisins.colourful envelopes.glitter.pinics.late night feast.


happiness everyday.more family gatherings.more climber's reunions.driving license.visit beautiful Turkey.travelling.holiday at lovely beaches.to further my studies.a house of my own.a miracle.



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